Things To Do After Being Dumped

1. Don’t Beg - Don’t go back to your old partner pleading and begging to be taken back. Even assuming there’s a chance for the two of you to work things out, begging is not the way to do it. Relationships are based on respect and no one can respect someone who’s begging to be with them.
2.  Don’t Make Big Life Changing Decisions – You’re hurt, you’re in emotional turmoil and you’re looking for something that will make the pain go away.
3.  Don’t get into another relationship – Yes, what they say about rebound relationships is true. They never last and they’re not fair to your rebound man or woman. You’re in no shape for a serious relationship and you’re probably just looking for someone so you won’t feel alone. That’s understandable but it’s no excuse to take advantage of another person.
4.  Make a clean cut break – No, you shouldn’t be facebook friends with your ex. That’s just opening you up for a whole host of pain. I don’t care if they want to still be friends, that’s just too damned bad. They dumped you and now you need to get on with your life, and you’re not going to do that while you’re constantly checking your .
5.  Find some way to be good to your body that involves the touch of another person – Yah yah, I know what you’re thinking (at least you guys) but that’s not what I meanex’s status to see who they’re hooking up with.
6.  Party it up – When I was still wallowing in self pity, an acquaintance of mine told me “you should slut it up a bit. Get out there. Flirt with everyone you meet and sleep with the ones who say yes.”